Have you ever tried not using any neutrals? How about sticking to one shade of color? I gave it a try... see what you think.
I made a mask with a post-it for my butterfly:
Hard to see, but I stamped the first butterfly in Pink Passion and the second butterly in Pixie Pink.
For added dimension, use VersaMark to bring out the natural color of your base card stock.
If you like some added embellishment, you can create your own butterfly:
Add a ribbon, glitter on the wings, and stamp some words:
A rather challenging day for me and the boys.
I'm off to bed now.